Full Moon in Libra: The Realization
April 16, 2022: 11:55am LA | 2:55pm NYC | 7:55pm London | 4:55am Sydney
Your Natal Chart & this Full Moon in Libra
First thing first. If you want to know where New + Full Moons are occurring in your specific chart, you’ll need to pull your chart here if you don’t have it already. You can also learn much more about your Natal Chart through the Intro To Astro Course (included in this membership).
You’ll notice the numbers outside of the wheel. This is the degree of your House Cusps. Every sign has 30 degrees, 0 to 29. Like I mention in the Intro To Astro Course, I use Equal Houses, which means that every House Cusp is at the same degree.
This Full Moon occurs in Libra at 26 degrees. So, for example, if you have Libra on your 6th House Cusp at 20 degrees, this Full Moon would fall in your 6th House. However, if you have Libra, let’s say, at 29 degrees on your 6th House Cusp, you’ll actually have this Full Moon in your 5th House .
This adds a layer of interpretation for how this Full Moon (and all upcoming lunations) will affect you personally.
Danielle’s Libra Full Moon Reflection
“But, she knew, you didn’t have to marry your soulmate, and you didn’t even have to marry an Interesting. You didn’t always need to be the dazzler, the firecracker, the one who cracked everyone up, or made everyone want to sleep with you, or be the one who wrote and starred in the play that got the standing ovation. You could cease to be obsessed with the idea of being interesting.”
― Meg Wolitzer, The Interestings (one of my favorite books)“When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”
― Tom Robbins“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage
This Full Moon in Libra, square Pluto, with Libra’s ruler Venus in Pisces, can have us in somewhat of a dream state, as our darker impulses, shadows and compulsions make themselves known.
A lot of what passes for spirituality these days is simply escapism, a fantasy play. We all carry darkness and light, our particular shadings revealing our vulnerabilities and humanity.
Pisces, which we have a lot of right now (Mars, Venus, Neptune and Jupiter) is the romantic idealist, the dreamer, the compassionate and sensitive artist, the healer. It’s everywhere and nowhere. Libra is the lover, the diplomat, the engineer, the beautifier and host. Both of these signs prefer not to rock the boat. They’d rather get along. Pisces will slip away, Libra will effort conviviality. It’s more active than Pisces. But they’re both peacemakers in their own way.
Pluto in Capricorn is still decimating the structures of our lives, the outdated and ultimately empty external forms of validation. The shedding offers new skin, new dreams, new aspirations. Still, the process can be intense. There may be things we’d rather not look at, rather not see.
Depending on our unique make-up, we may avoid conflict or ugliness or the darker side of life. Or we may run to it, mining the manure for all its fertile richness. Either way, there’s no end point. There’s peaks and valleys, ups and downs and whatever this moment, right here, is offering.
Relationships, as one might expect with a Full Moon in Libra, have been the topic with clients. The fantasy vs the reality, projection, need vs autonomy. We hear “relationships are mirrors,” but do we really take that in, do we really metabolize it? There’s no formula. No endgame. And it’s not just about us, what we need. It’s listening deeper, harder, stretching and expanding, giving. It’s being changed, being teachable, admitting blind spots and weaknesses. We need others and others need us. We find our way to ourselves and to one another through honesty and heart. it’s a constant discovery, a constant negotiation. There is no other way.
Release + Awareness Suggestions for this Full Moon in The Houses
If this moon falls in your first house (or conjunct the Sun): Awareness of how my need to “get along” impacts my relationships and how I present myself to the world.
If this moon falls in your second house: The awareness of what’s mine and what’s another’s, how I relate to resources, mine and another’s.
If this moon falls in your third house: Awareness of how I communicate, how I think and how I relate to my siblings and/or community
If this moon falls in your fourth house (or conjunct the Moon or IC): Awareness of core needs, what and who feels like home, the push/pull between our domestic needs and our career prospects
If this moon falls in your fifth house: Awareness of our love language, how we express love, our creative expression vs how we receive love, our sense of belonging, and our hopes, dreams and wishes
If this moon falls in your sixth house: Awareness of our daily routine, habits, health and well being, how we interact with co-workers and our desire for rest and retreat
If this moon falls in your seventh house: Relationships, of all kinds and how our identity impacts them, the push/pull between I and We
If this moon falls in your eighth house: Awareness of entanglements, of the complexity of our psyche, our sexuality and what belongs to others, vs what belongs to us
If this moon falls in your ninth house: Awareness of one’s beliefs and how they drive our perspective, the bigger picture vs our immediate circumstances and surroundings, how our language shapes our reality
If this moon falls in your tenth house (or conjunct the MC): Awareness of the state of our career and/or how we hold those in authority and how that relates to our individuality and our conditioning
If this moon falls in your eleventh house: Awareness of the state of our friendships, if we feel connected to the groups we belong to, our hopes, dreams and wishes and how they allow for our individual expression
If this moon falls in your twelfth house: Awareness of the unconscious, the need for retreat vs the demands of our every day
JOURNAL PROMPTS
What “ideas” do I hold about relationship (not just romantically, but relating to another)?
What is my experience of relationship? How do I experience relationship?
If I stop and reflect, do my ideas about relationship match my experience of relationship?
In relationship what themes seem to present themselves?
Can I take responsibility for “my stuff?”
How can I remind myself that relationship is a place of soul learning, rather than a destination or a goal?
BOOKS
Conscious Loving by Gay Hendricks
Calling In The One by Katherine Woodward Thomas
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
STREAMING